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It was with great
sadness that I learned of Gerry’s passing. Gerry taught me PE and
swimming when I first started at Camp Hill in 1964. I well remember
how smartly he used to dress in immaculate white plimsolls which
enabled him to move almost silently around the school buildings. For
reasons now possibly lost in the mists of time all the younger boys
at school called him “Daddy” Thain. Among his colleagues on the
staff were some who would administer private beatings to boys they
caught in the act of some misdemeanour, but Gerry’s was a far nobler
spirit and he stood out as a man whose integrity, firmness of
purpose and warmth was usually more than enough to correct the
wayward. Gerry taught me to swim, trained me as a sprinter and
always treated me with the avuncular kindness everyone else has
commented on.
In later years I knew him
as a colleague. I joined the teaching staff at KE Five Ways in 1976
and would frequently pitch my swimming team against his in the annual
rivalries. Camp Hill almost always won, but on the odd occasion that
we triumphed against his team he would give me that enigmatic smile of
his and make us both a cup of coffee in his office.
I remember him with great
affection.
Andy Terry
I remember Gerry from
the fifties when I was swimming for a school in the same foundation
(King Edwards Five Ways) and how during those years the K E Camphill
School came to dominate the Greater Birmingham Grammar Schools
Gala. Years later I saw him on TV poolside at Seoul Olympics (I
think) and then in the 90's at a swim meet in Bristol where my
daughter was competing. He seemed unchanged from my youthful
recollection as still the same enthusiastic leader. I was sorry to
see from your website of his death this January, I doubt we shall
see many able to maintain the commitment of over sixty years that
Gerry gave to this sport and the youth of Birmingham.
Richard P Mair
We would like to send
our deepest condolences to all the friends and family of Gerry
Thain. A man who was clearly respected in so many ways. Please
accept our heartfelt sympathies during this difficult time
Fox Hollies Swimming Club
I only knew Gerry Thain
as a pupil at Camp Hill from PE lessons and the weekly visits to
local swimming baths. I’m sure that he would have remembered me, not
for being a good swimmer but for being one of his failures as,
despite years of tuition, by the time I left I could just about
swim. I don’t think that put him off as he went on to greater things
in the swimming world.
I was one of the many that
helped raise funds for the pool back in the late 60s and early 70s,
buying the pens and helping out at many of the fundraising events held
at the school. One event that springs to mind was when the model
railway club had set up their layouts in the gym and Gerry was most
concerned that we should not damage the floor insisting on a thick
tarpaulin to cover the polished wood. There may have been a little
damage at the edges but I think we got away with it.
After many years of fund
raising the pool was finally build but by that time I had left the
school. On a visit to the school several years later I met him and he
did remember me and invited me to swim in the then recently opened
pool.
I last visited Camp Hill
in March 2012 for the Old Edwardians dinner and by chance found out
that he was over at the pool with his beloved swimming club, but by
the time I went over there he had gone home. I would have loved to
have met up with him for what would have been the last time. He is one
of the few teachers at Camp Hill that I remember well so, despite his
lack of success in teaching me to swim, he has left a lasting
impression in my memory. Farewell Gerry and long may your memory and
inspiration last.
Keith Wevill (Camp Hill
1964 – 1971)
Gerry was my only coach, for over 40 years. Every
length I've ever swum (which wasn't probably enough) he's been
there in some way. From
day 1 at Monument Road, through watching my then Olympic hero Martin
Edwards training at the brand new pool (I still remember Gerry
shouting 'Take your Marks...Ice Cream' instead of 'GO' for some
bizarre reason), to his unbelievable resilience and international
support for Masters; he's taught me so much about swimming and
myself, values that I'm proud to pass on to my children and the
swimmers I help to coach. We're all grieving now, but we've been the
lucky ones, to have been on the receiving end of a 'GOOD' and, as we
matured, a handshake and a hug. The world is a better place for FGT,
in spite of his terrible writing. We'll never forget you, Gerry,
thank you so much for everything.
It’s taken me some time
but I have finally (with many tears) been able to write a little
something about the man whom I have an unwavering amount of respect,
loyalty and love for.
Over the 20 years I have
known Mr Thain he has taken on many roles in my life: always my
inspirational coach, intent on making me a fly swimmer, interested in
my times even though I am never the fastest at a gala. A very honest
and nurturing boss when I was told to take on and run the junior side
of the club (and told I must now call him Gerry). A friend and
grandfather figure in every other aspect of my life, of which he was
always interested (especially my many injuries and ailments which he
disapproved of amusingly).
Over the last 5 years
especially, he has taught me so much about coaching, being a team
manager and how to treat the swimmers and their families, and he
really was one of the kindest and most selfless people I have ever
known. The world of swimming, alas the world of sport, is truly
saddened without Gerry as a coach, let’s hope some of us can step up
and try to keep his way of coaching alive. The world itself is at a
loss without this truly amazing man.
Gerry I miss you, I love
you and I will do my best to try and make you proud.
Heather Tierney
Reading the tributes
that have been written has made me realise that I just don't have
the words to write down what an amazing man Gerry was, but I am
going to try. In my eyes, 'The boss' was special, a real
inspiration, he had the patience of a saint and a great sense of
humour (a lot of the time at my expense!) and best of all a friend.
10 years a go I met Gerry
at the Wycombe open meet, and he invited me to join his club when I
moved to Birmingham. Little did I know that my CH journey had started.
He took me under his wing
as a very young masters swimmer and an inexperienced coach. He invited
me to be part of the CH family and for this I am truly grateful. He
has made me 'Jane Talker' and I couldn't thank him enough.
Everyday I think about
you. Everyday I miss you. Thank you Gerry x
Jane Stalker
Gerry you were such an amazing coach, mentor and an inspiration to
people all over the world for many years. All those years ago when
you started Camphill Edwardians Swimming Club and had the vision of
what the club could achieve and the many swimmers and parents who
would be adopted by you as the Camphill Edwardians family is simply
amazing, also the great work you have done for British Swimming is
truly outstanding, thank you for having faith in me and giving me a
chance to start coaching working with amazing swimmers and coach's
and also for welcoming Charlotte, Tracy and myself to become part of
the Camphill Edwardians family, we will miss you very much and you
will always be in our thoughts and I know every time we are at the
pool you will be watching over all of us. God Bless
Kevin,
Tracy and Charlotte Bailey
I am another person who
swam for Camp Hill in the 1960’s. Gerry was a slightly scary
individual to the younger boys but he was the reason behind the
success of that team, both school and club. In the late 60’s there
was also the water polo team! Fond memories of a tremendous coach
and character.
Bill Lewis
I was
very sad to learn this weekend that Gerry Thain had passed away. As
someone else has said, I am sure he would not want us to lament him,
but more to remember with gratitude the influence he had on swimming
in general, on swimming in the West Midlands, and on individuals who
came into contact with him.
On a
personal level my first memory of Gerry was when I was swimming in
Nottingham in the early 60’s and my coach continually referring to
“Mester Thain” – then in his role at Midland District. I came into
regular contact with him during my time at Midland District events and
on the District Executive Committee. I last saw him at Sheffield at
the National Masters Championships at the end of October last year.
Gerry
had a quiet, yet forceful influence on our sport, the effect of which
will long survive him. It is humbling to read the comments that have
been posted about Gerry and the influence that he had on so many
individuals. This demonstrates the true legacy of our sport – the
positive effect that we have on the lives of individuals.
In my
current role as President, on behalf of the members of the ASA, I
express our condolences to his family and close friends, and give
thanks for his unique contribution to swimming. From a personal
perspective I am grateful to have known him.
Josie
Grange - ASA President 2013
It is with great sadness that I
learnt today that Gerry Thain had passed away peacefully. He will I
am sure be missed by the many swimmers who passed through his club
and were inspired by his quiet and effective coaching. However his
influence was much wider than this in swimming through his work both
nationally and Internationally he will be greatly missed by so many
in the sport he loved.
Gerry was passionate beyond words on
swimming and often spoke up for the swimmers in perhaps a way others
could not I can recall many moments in my time working in swimming as
a volunteer in Birmingham when others stood firm against change and
Gerry would speak up for providing more opportunity for the athletes.
Gerry would often speak up when he felt that administrators had
forgotten the swimmers and lost their way in their rules and
regulations and his wise words were influential in making people
listen to a man with a passion for the sport.
He has left an enormous legacy more
than many and will be remembered for a long time in the sport he
worked so hard for during his lifetime and the people he influenced
David Sparkes - Chief
Executive British Swimming
Just a message for a fantastic
man, I spent a great deal of time on the National team with Gerry and
he never stopped supporting me as a swimmer and was always a support
and a gentleman. He has had a great life and has inspired countless
people over his time. You will be missed Gerry by a great deal of
people. God Bless,
Mike Fibbens
Only those who trained/raced
for him will truly know what swimming has lost, the man is
irreplaceable, he taught my son David so much and the discipline of
life. "In freestyle as in life keep your head down and your eyes wide
open" words never forgotten after 20 years or more. Rest in Peace
Gerry.
PS David still
races-Masters-so tell Hoare/Baker/Hindson and Lee plus a few others to
get back in the water, they have me back on the poolside here after 15
years !!
Graham and David Woodhall -
Nova Scotia, Canada.
Gerry, you were always the
perfect gentleman, a man who knew all and dobbed little! Love you lots
and feel proud to have known you. X x x x x x x x x
Gaynor Stanley
So
sorry to hear the sad news regarding Gerry. I started swimming at
Moseley Road baths around 1971 and have played polo ever since- Gerry
has been a pretty much constant feature during the last 42 years. I
will miss my banter with him on a Monday night! Deepest sympathy to
all.
Mark Coles
Boldmere Swimming Club wish to send
their condolences to everyone at Camp Hill Edwardian Swimming Club
that knew and loved Gerry. The messages on your website from his
friends are very moving, and are a window on how you all loved and
respected him. For me, he was unsurpassed as a coach in Birmingham and
a gentleman in every sense of the word. I will miss our conversations
at the Warwickshire County Championships.
Shirley Wigley (referee and
Chairperson, Boldmere Swimming Club)
As
I'm sat here in tears, I'm remembering an inspirational man who
never gave up on anything or anybody. Gerry was a huge part of my
life, taught me so much - not just about swimming, but about growing
up, morals, skills & life in general. He's touched the hearts of so
many people, and nobody had a bad word to say about him. My only
regret was not keeping in touch as much as I should have done. But I
do hope he knows how thankful I am for everything he did for me, how
much I appreciate him believing in me, and how much I loved him.
Gerry Thain, you helped to make me the person I am today. You're
amazing, i hope you can see this now & understand how much of a true
gem you really were. I'm sorry for not getting chance to see you,
but I love you, and know you're in a better place now. Thank you for
everything. x
Danni Bourne
So sorry
to hear about Gerry - he has been a great inspiration to numerous
swimmers over his many years in the sport and always proud of their
achievements whether they have been within the sport or in their
personal lives.
All
through the years that I have known him - from swimmer to swimming mom
- children have always known where they stood with him - a word, a
look was all they needed and he has always had their respect -
thoroughly deserved. If ever a training video is done about "How to
be the 'Perfect' Coach" then they could do no better than to have used
Gerry. Kind regards and thanks
Helen, Tony, Yvette and Stuart Baker
He
was a true sporting gent we had many a tussle with the camp hill
team in the nineties Gerry was always positive and friendly, I
cannot recall any occasion where he was anything but supportive, I
learned a great deal from him, will remember him with respect
Brian
Phelps ex Perry Beeches
I knew Gerry for more than
30 years in my capacity as an official and coach. I always found
him to be a perfect gentleman, who was one of the quietest men on
the poolside, but you were always aware of his presence. The sport
is now missing one of its greatest ambassadors. We will all miss
his presence and quiet dignity.
Dave Marsh (Referee & Head
Coach Perry Beeches SSS)
Another light has gone
out. We're going to miss you Gerry. Friend, neighbour, connoisseur
of alcoholic beverages, animal lover, mentor, confidant, financial
and retirement adviser, judge and moral commentator on the wrongs of
society. Oh and not forgetting the definitive swimming Principal and
Coach. Hoping we'll meet up again at some point, but not yet!
Paul and Jan Millington
It was 1960 when I first met Gerry delivering his
newspapers to his house in Portman Road kings Heath, I recognised
him as the man who coached swimmers at Kings Heath baths. He would
always give advice to anyone who asked about swimming training.
I got to know Gerry the person during my Camp Hill Polo
days at the school pool and again over the last 10 years swimming
masters for Camp Hill.
Gerry never changed for me , he always offered sound constructive
advice you respected with a smile. He will be sadly missed by all who
knew him.
May the Sun always shine on your face with the wind on your back. It
was a pleasure knowing you.
Bernard Wills
It has taken
me a few days to organise my thoughts and write a tribute that is
fitting to one of the most wonderful, selfless men I have ever had
the pleasure of meeting.
Mr Thain
reminded me of how much i loved swimming when I joined Camp Hill after
being forced to leave another club due to personal difficulties. He
encouraged me to push myself to the limits of my ability and took the
time to understand what my strengths were as a swimmer (unfortunately
that meant 10 x 200m fly sets for me, but I remember them fondly!).
Mr Thain knew
each member of his swimming family well and inspired generations of
young Camp Hillians to always do their very best. This attitude is
something that I know all of us will have taken forward in our adult
lives and even though we may no longer swim, we are all better people
because of the discipline, perseverance and determination that Mr
Thain taught us.
The world of
swimming lost a truly wonderful coach when Mr Thain passed, but his
star will forever shine brightly within the memories of those who knew
and loved him. RIP Mr Thain, you were one in a million x
Louisa Ball
I very much look forward
to joining the fray again in the pool though I expect it will be
quite different without Gerry around - other than in spirit, which I
expect will be with us every session.
So nice to read the
comments online from all those that knew Gerry for so much longer than
I did. Despite the short period for which I knew Gerry I certainly
felt that there was "something" about him. Looking forward to seeing
you all again soon
Jojo Neff
We have just heard the sad
news that Gerry has passed away and it is regretful that we have not
seen him for a number of years; although we are comforted by the many
tributes we have read today. Gerry was without doubt a great
inspiration to us all and so many people are saddened by this news. A
great man with a dry sense of humour that had a tremendous impact on
our early lives and indeed the discipline he instilled on us has
definitely influenced our achievements later in life. Thank you for
being in our lives Gerry; maybe about time we got back in the pool.
David & Tracey Beavan
Having
had the pleasure of knowing Gerry for the past 40 years in my capacity
of Chairman of Triple S Swimming Club and later Warwickshire County
Swimming Secretary I found him the most honest and genuine person. I
had the privilege of working with Gerry at Club, County and Midland
Districts level, his vast knowledge of swimming was a great help to a
person like myself when I was quite new to the sport and he always had
a smile and a welcoming handshake whenever we met and even at the
recent Diddy League meetings at which I was officiating he was his
usual genuine self. A truly inspirational man within the swimming
world and he will be greatly missed. I consider myself fortunate to
have known Gerry.
Malcolm Hughes, Ex Chairman of Triple S Swimming Club and Ex Swimming
Secretary, Warwickshire.
I was
thinking, “what was it about Gerry that we all loved so much“? Was
it, his quiet, unassuming manner? Was it that thin smile and nod of
acknowledgement interspersed with the occasional but heart-felt,
“Good”? Was it his unflappability, he'd seen it all before and
always gave measured and meaningful comment. He actively shunned the
lime-light yet we as Camp hill Edwardians achieved so much under his
sole leadership. As you can see I'm struggling to put into words why
he was so enigmatic. I think he had great empathy with us all and
never held any grudges. I'm sure at times some, including myself,
tested his patients to the limit but I think he saw good in
everyone. There by, above all else he earned our respect and
admiration.
Mr
Thain, Gerry – it has been an absolute honour to know you and be part
of your gang. I'm sure we will all miss you very much but hopefully,
rejoice in our own individual memories of life at Camp hill under your
guidance and leadership. Many thanks.
Paul
Tainty
I arrived at Camp Hill
from Colmore Road junior school, where Mary [warm, kind & lovely]
taught, in 1962. She warned Gerry to "expect" me: I had managed to
be caned 3 times at Colmore Road in less than 2 terms! I could swim
about 1 length but neither my lack of ability nor my disciplinary
record was much of an obstacle to Gerry. We trained before school,
at lunch times, after school & all over the city whether the heating
was working or not! Moseley Road Baths heating wasn't working one
winter & we couldn't see from one end of the pool to the other for
the steam from our bodies; Gerry having a voice like a foghorn
probably helped here!
Gerry was tough but there was always that twinkle & that dry humour.
I particularly remember forming into multiple teams for "width
relays" at the end of tough training sessions [in with the public]
at Kings Heath Baths: such a lot of fun with Gerry trying to catch
us out as often as he could by varying the rhythm & steps of "on
your marks, get set,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,GO. A favourite was just
GO with his backed turned when nobody was ready!
Of course, like many
others, I spent my school career raising money for the pool that was
built after I left Camp Hill in 1969.It is hard to imagine how much
work Gerry put in to realise that dream. It is even more difficult to
picture how a man could sustain such an extraordinary effort
throughout his life.
I saw Gerry for the first
time for about 40 years a couple of months ago. I am glad that I did,
regret not seeing him more & appreciate the sacrifices he [& Mary]
made for us all.
John Lilley
I
first knew Gerry in 1960 ish when Camp Hill used to swim against St
Pauls at Cheltenham. He was such a gentlemen
Jeremy Burbidge
I
apologise if I have missed anything! If I have please email
gerry@chesc.org.uk and I will
post it. Many thanks, Steve
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